Never stop being Superman

The advice is this email is mainly for guys who are in a relationship right now… but even if your single at the moment, you’d do well to read this so you can avoid make this deadly mistake when you do end up in a relationship.

And I say deadly mistake because this one is a real relationship killer.

The mistake?

Letting your girl become your #1 focus in life, and changing yourself for her.

Case in point, here’s an example from the movie Superman 2. I know you’re probably thinking what on earth does a super hero movie from the 80’s have do with relationships.

So let me tell you.

In the movie, Lois Lane discovers that Clark Kent is Superman. Lois convinces Kent that they would be able to become romantically closer if he gave up his Superpowers and became a regular person just like her. And Superman does just that.

Problem being, Lois Lane fell in love with Clark Kent because he was Superman.

Long story short, Clark Kent ends up getting beaten up, Villains start running wild and Kent has to travel all the way to Antarctica to get his superpowers back.

And he got into all of this trouble, all because he gave up his superpowers for a women.

Moral of story. Never change who you are to appease a woman.

When you get into a relationship with a woman, all too often she will try to change you in some way or another. And if you let her change you, she’ll lose all respect and attraction for you and possibly end up leaving for some guy who was like the person you used to be.

I’m not certain of the reasons why woman do this, but I’ve witnessed it time and time again, so it’s definitely a recurring phenomenon.

The solution? Never compromise yourself for a woman.

If you want to have a successful long lasting relationship with a woman, you will have to make compromises. As will she. Relationships are all about making little sacrifices so you can both live a more fulfilling life with each other.

But there’s a big difference between making compromises, and compromising who you are as a person.

The former is healthy and necessary. The latter should be avoided at all costs.

I talk about how to do this in way more detail in principle #1 of the 5 principles of attraction, that you’ll find in the Get Her In Bed program.

The small lifestyle change I talk about at the end of that first principle is a real game changer. And not just for your love life… It’s going to help you improve every area of your life in general.

It’s very powerful stuff.

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland