6 signs you’re a wuss around women
If you’ve ever wondered why a woman has pulled away from you after you’ve seemingly done something nice for her, it’s probably because doing so made you come across as a wussy man.
I know nobody wants to hear that there acting like a wuss, and I hope for the most part I’m preaching to the choir when I bang on about this stuff.
But almost every day when I’m out, going about my business, I’ll see guys acting like complete wussies for their girlfriend… Or worse, their girl “friend”.
Women are not attracted to wussy men.
Never have been.
Never will be.
But acting like a wuss is a fixable problem. Hell, when I was young and clueless, I 100% have acted like a wuss towards a girl.
So I believe it’s my moral duty to do what I can to help out all the guys out there who are struggling with wussy behavior and probably aren’t even aware that it’s a problem. (It’s always the guys who are most adamant that they don’t need this advice that need it most. I know because I used to be THAT GUY)
That’s why I’ve put together this little list.
6 signs you’re a wuss around women
1. You tell her you have feelings for her, too soon (Generally you should let her bring up the feelings discussion first)
2. Always asking her what she wants instead of taking the lead
3. You call or text her too often (Note: if you’re calling her more than she’s calling you, you’re calling too often)
4. Acting subservient or submissive around her.
5. Always accepting her demands, doing her favors, and falling for her manipulative behavior.
6. Putting her wants and needs ahead of your own.
It may seem a little counter-intuitive that putting a girl first, showing her affection, letting her know how you feel about her, and letting her make the decisions would be a bad thing to do.
But these are all terrible things to do because they send a girl the message that you don’t value yourself and that she is dating down.
Every girl wants to date up.
And when I say that I don’t mean in terms of looks, because how you look doesn’t matter to woman as much as a bunch of other factors when it comes to attraction.
Things like taking the lead in the relationship, putting yourself first, and not acting needy is going to make you far more attractive to a woman than all the good looks in the world.
And if you want to learn how to cultivate those qualities in your own personality, and discover how to bring more beautiful women into your life, and into your bedroom, then here’s your link:
https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed
Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland