Girls just wanna have fun
It’s true…
And if you’ve ever wondered how some girls could possibly be attracted to complete deadbeats who seemingly have nothing going for them… no job… no money… no stability… Then by the time you’re done reading this, you’ll understand completely and how you can use this knowledge to your advantage.
But first, let’s rap a little about the ways most guys go about trying to impress girls, and why they are largely ineffective.
One of the most common ways a guy will go about trying to get a girl is that he will try and show her how nice he is…
How caring he is…
How respectful he is…
These strategies are for the most part ineffective because they are based on the false (but fairly common) belief that women are soft, timid and innocent and they need to be cared for and protected. That they need to be made to feel safe. (Bah!)
So let’s shatter that belief right now. The vast majority of women are not timid, they are not so pure, and they are not so innocent.
In fact, most of the woman I’ve encountered have had far dirtier minds than most men I know, and they also have a much higher tendency to be manipulative than men do. (Hardly a feature of someone who is soft and innocent!)
And I’m not hating. As the saying goes, all is fair in love and war.
But here’s the real kicker.
Women don’t want protecting. They want excitement.
They want to be with someone who makes them FEEL excited.
And once you understand that, you will then realize why some girls are so attracted to guys who fall under the “bad boy” stereotype. Even if those guys have nothing else going for them in their lives.
So what does this mean for you?
It means you should stop trying to make woman like you by showing the caring and nurturing side of your personality.
Because she aint buying it.
She’s not in the market for safety. She’s in the market for excitement.
And if you can give off the vibe that your an exciting person to be around, you will have more women interested in you than you can shake your stick at.
Want to learn how you can develop a more exciting vibe that is like a magnet for hot women?
The 5 Principles Of Attraction in the Get Her In Bed program will show you how.
Here’s your link young Padawan:
https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed
Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland