When you should let a woman take the lead

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“When you should let a woman take the lead”

If you’re a regular reader of these articles, you’ll be well aware of how much I stress the importance of taking the lead with women. Women want a man who takes initiative.

But, if you start to get into a semi-serious relationship with a girl, there are a couple of areas in which you’re better of letting your woman take the lead.

The first of which is “Making your relationship exclusive.”

You should never be the one to initiate the conversation about making your relationship with her exclusive, or asking her to move in with you, or anything like that.

If you want your relationship to work, you’ve got to be the one to let her make the first move when it comes to talking about “exclusivity”.

Reason being – (and this harks back to what I was talking about in yesterday’s article) – the moment you make yourself too easily attainable, is the moment her attraction to you is going to start to wither away.

If you haven’t read yesterday’s article on this topic, I’ll quickly summarize the takeaway: To maximize how attractive you are to women, you have to strike a balance between being “too available” and “too unavailable”.

And being the one to initiate the conversation about exclusivity falls into the category of being way too available.

Whereas, if she’s the one to initiate “the talk” and asking for exclusivity, the power is your hands.

And you might be thinking to yourself right now, “But what if I want a relationship with a girl, but she never asks? What do I do then?”

If you’re spending time with a girl at least twice a week – (and when I say spending time, I mean also hanging out… Not just having sex) then after about 2 and half months (this happens like clockwork), you can be almost certain she’ll start asking you where the relationship is heading and she will initiate the talk.

And if she doesn’t?

Well, I’ve never had this happen. But if it did, it be a pretty big warning sign that something wasn’t right and I highly doubt any sort of long term relationship would work out in this situation.

And when she does initiate the talk, you’ve got to play it cool. You don’t agree to being exclusive with her straight away.

Once again… you don’t want to seem like you’re “too available”.

Tell her that “I’ll have to think it over”.

Then decide in your own good time about whether or not you really want to get into a serious relationship with her right now.

And as for the second thing that you should let women take the lead with?

It’s using the word “Love”.

Or confessing your feelings for her in any sort of way.

A women should always be the first one to say “I love you.”

A women should always be the first one to bring up the topic of how you feel about each other.

The reasons behind this, are the same reasons behind point number one.

Telling a girl you love her too soon (i.e. before she tells you) puts all the power in her hands, and can have the disastrous effect of diminishing the attraction she feels towards you.

So never say “I love you” until she says it to you first.

And this doesn’t mean you need to say it to her immediately after she’s confessed her love for you.

There’s no rush.

You can play it cool and tell her at a later date.

Anyway, that about wraps up today’s article.

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland