Will you meet me halfway?
Just a short email today… But it’s packed with a valuable tactic for those who apply it.
When it comes to first dates, the conventional advice is to meet the girl at a venue that’s somewhere halfway between your place and hers.
And as a youngen’, I too thought that when going on a date, I should probably meet her somewhere halfway.
After all… It does seem fair.
But like most conventional dating advice, you’d do well to ignore it…
And there’s many reasons why.
For one thing, you’re probably not going to be as familiar with good venues that are located 20 to 30 minutes away from where you live. And if you follow the halfway advice, you’re probably going to end up going to different venues with every new girl you date. Which isn’t ideal, because a date is going to go far better for you if you have it at a venue that you’re already familiar with, where you might even know some of the people who work there.
And worst of all, if you have a date at a venue that isn’t that close to either your place, or her place, then if things are going well and you want to invite her back to yours after (which you should be doing) it takes longer and is more of a hassle than it needs to be.
So instead, whenever possible, arrange dates at a venue that is close to your place. Preferably within walking distance if possible. Or a short taxi ride away at most.
The benefits of doing so are many.
And the drawbacks are few… So it’s a bit of a no brainer when you start to think about it.
If you to get your hands on more tactics like this, and more importantly, the principles behind why these sort of tactics work so effectively, you can find them inside the Get Her In Bed program.
Here’s the link with all the details:
https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed
Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland