4 tips for game beginners
One of the most common email questions I receive is as follows:
“I’m new to the concept of using game to attract women. What are the first steps I should take to help improve my game?”
Of course, the question is often worded differently from email to email. But that is the general gist of the question.
And too finally answer this question once and for all, I’ve put together a short list of 4 simple tips for game beginners.
So without further ado…
4. MAKE ONE APPROACH PER DAY
If you want to get better at anything, practice is key. And game is no different. If you want to get better at approaching and seducing women, you’re going to have to put in the practice.
Now, a lot of people will tell you that the best way to get this practice in is to go out and make approaches on mass.
And don’t get me wrong. That can work.
But it’s unlikely that you’re going to be able to maintain doing that as a daily habit.
So instead, make a point to just approach one woman per day, with the intention of having a short conversation with her and getting her phone number.
That’s it. Just one approach per day. It’s only going to take you 5 – 10 minutes to make that approach and you can do it when you’re already out and about, going about your day to day business.
It’s easy, so no excuses.
If you don’t know what to say to start a conversation, or how to guide that conversation to the woman giving you her phone number, then the Get Her In Bed program can help you with that.
https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed
3. EMBRACE FAILURE
Once you start approaching at least one woman per day, some of those approaches aren’t going to go your way.
Maybe the woman will subtly let you know she isn’t interested in you. On rare occasions, you might find a woman will be flat out rude to you.
Rather than letting little failures get to you, embrace them and move on. Even the smoothest of smooth playboys get rejected by women regularly.
It’s not a big deal.
Just remember that if you’re not being rejected, it means you’re not approaching enough.
2. SLOWLY BUILD YOURSELF UP
I know everyone wants to get with the smokin’ hot 10’s, but when you’re starting out, approaching incredibly attractive women can seem somewhat intimidating. You start questioning yourself, “would she even be interested in me?”
Long story short, if you’re asking yourself these sorts of questions, you don’t have the confidence yet.
That’s okay. It just means you’re going to have to slowly build up your confidence.
And one of the easiest ways to do this is to start of with approaching average looking women. (5’s and 6’s)
Then you move onto cute looking women. (7’s and 8’s)
And then finally you move onto approaching 9’s and 10’s once you’ve build up enough confidence.
But whatever you do, don’t go trying to set up dates with girls who are 4’s, 3’s or lower.
I know this might sound shallow, but dating such girls can have the opposite affect and permanently cripple your dating confidence.
Ignore this at your own peril.
1. READ GAME MATERIAL AND ACTUALLY APPLY IT
And finally, one of the fastest ways to improve you game is read game material.
What works and what doesn’t work has already been figured out, so it makes sense to read about what game tactics and principles have been proven to work, rather than trying to work it all out for yourself through tiresome trial and error.
Of course, none of what you read or learn will be of any use to you if you don’t actually go out and apply that knowledge… so don’t be one of those guys who has read all the game books, but has never actually approached a girl.
If you’re looking for a great introduction to the principles of game, which can skyrocket the success you have with women, then I recommend you check out the Get Her In Bed program.
It delves deep into practically every aspect of game…
…from the underlying principles of attraction… getting with a girl who is already in your life… making day approaches in various venues… making night approaches in clubs and bars… having success using online dating… right through to how to use game when you’re in a relationship…
So if you want to take the next step to having more success with women, the details on how to access the Get Her In Bed program are below:
https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed
Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland