Is She Actually Into You… Or Just A Tease!

As a man, it’s hard to imagine a serious relationship without sex.

You can’t really have one without the other (and when you do, it doesn’t usually end well!)

So if you were talking to your mate and he said he’d been dating  a woman for a few months now – but he still hadn’t had sex with her – you’d probably look at him like he was crazy!

And rightly so.

But it’s not just relationships that we equate with sex. It’s the dating landscape as a whole.

I bet at some point you’ve come across a woman who seemed really into you. Maybe she was really flirty with you. Maybe she would send you some naughty texts from time to time.

But ultimately, whenever you tried to ramp things up and get intimate with her, she’d make all kinds of excuses.

I’ve been there too!

When this happens, it’s easy to feel confused.

You might wonder to yourself: “Why is this woman so seemingly into me… but also seems to have zero interest in actually having sex with me? What is going on?”

Well the answer is quite simple…

The fact is these sorts of woman are just teases.

Let me explain why this is the case, and how to deal with teases.

The psychology behind the “tease” phenomenon is actually pretty interesting.

You see, women crave validation. And while both sexes enjoy feeling validated from time to time, validation for women is like a drug to them.

It feels as good as sex to them.

They need it, and will go to great lengths to get it!

It’s why they get so obsessed about posting pictures on Instagram and Facebook so they can lap up all the likes and attention.

And it’s why they tease guys and lead them on…

Flirting with a man and leading him on is one of the easiest ways to get attention, compliments and validation.

For women, just knowing that there are guys interested in them, who are desperate to have sex with them is as pleasing as actually having sex.

So, what’s the solution?

This is going to sound a little bit crude, but I promise you it works like crazy!

If a woman starts teasing you, but shows no interest in progressing things physically, then…

…you’ve got to treat her like a dog!

I told you it would sound crude. But seriously, hear me out.

When I say treat her like a dog, I don’t mean that you should take her and make her chase after a ball…

No. What I mean is that you should reward her good behavior with attention and validation (the thing she craves!)

And “punish” her bad behavior by withdrawing your attention and validation from her.

In this case, the bad behavior is her teasing.

The next time she starts with her “teasing behavior” – such as flirting, or fishing for compliments – you should act like you’re no longer interested.

Don’t flirt back. Don’t compliment her. Don’t give her any validation.

When you do this, one or two things will happen.

One she’ll realize she’s not getting what she wants from you anymore – validation – so she’ll end up moving onto some other sucker who’ll give her free validation in exchange for not having sex with her.

This is a win, because it means you’re not wasting your time with a tease anymore and you can spend that time pursuing other “more worthy” women instead.

And the second thing that can often happen is she’ll start to respect you.

She’ll see you in a new light.

All of a sudden, you’re not like the other 5 guys she’s talking too who are all goo-goo-gah-gah over her.

She’ll wonder why her teasing is no longer working on you, and she’ll start chasing after you.

When this happens, the woman can be like putty in your hands.

In her eyes, your value has just skyrocketed.

Just continue to show almost no interest in her for about a week and let the tension build.

Then you can slowly start to show a little interest in her again and take things to the next level.

If you’re dealing with a tease right now, give this a go and see it works for you. I’m sure you’ll be pleased with the results.