How To Build Attraction With Touch And Oxytocin

A big question that goes through the heads of a lot of men when they’re out on a first date with a women is:

“How much should I be touching her?”

You may have read that touch is super important when creating an attraction with a woman.

But you’re also probably worrying about touching her too much and coming across as a little bit creepy.

So hopefully this article can clear up some of those questions for you, and leave you knowing how to use the full power of your touch to make a woman attracted to you.

Touching Her Skin

Whenever you touch a woman you create a chemical reaction in both yourself and her.

You cause each others bodies to release a chemical compound known as oxytocin.

Now, for those of you who aren’t science geeks, oxytocin is basically a hormone that occurs in mammals that is strongly linked to sexual reproduction.

Oxytocin does quite a few interesting things.

First of all, it increases testosterone levels, which leads to an increased sex drive. (In women as well as men)

Secondly, oxytocin is the biochemical agent that triggers feelings of bonding. A.K.A (liking, lust and love)

And thirdly, oxytocin makes people feel good.

And best of all… women respond a lot more strong to oxytocin than men do, because oxytocin requires estrogen to produce all of these effects. (And women generally have a lot more estrogen than men, duh!)

So not only does your touch make a woman feel good. It also makes her horny and produces a feeling of bonding towards you.

In other words… the more you touch a woman when she’s out on a date with you, the higher your chances of having sex with her.

Touching a woman, even very lightly, can completely change the way she thinks about you.

And whats more, once just a little oxytocin has been released into the blood stream, it creates the desire for more.

So What Does This Mean For You

If you’re out on a first date with a woman, you don’t want to just start touching her like crazy right off the bat. Because if you do that, you’re going to end up giving off a creepy vibe, and you’re going to scare her off.

Not good!

So the trick is to start off slowly. Just touch her very lightly for a brief second or her arm, and then take your hand away again.

When you do this, a very small amount of oxytocin is going to be released into her blood stream.

Do a few more of these ligh touches throughout the early stages of your date to let her get comfortable with you touching her, and to release more oxytocin into her bloodstream.

Before long, she’s going to be craving more oxytocin and because of this, she’s going to be comfortable with you touching her for longer.

As the date goes on, you can experiment with touching her for longer – and in more intimate places.

For example, you could start with light touches on her arms or her hands. You could then move on to touching her upper leg. Then her back… her waist… and he her bum.

Just don’t rush it!

Start off lightly and slowly build up to the more intimate touching.

Do it right and by the end of the date she’s going to be very turned on, and pent up full of sexual energy.