How To Deal With Emotions In A Relationship

As a man, if you want to have a successful relationship with a woman, it’s vital that you’re able to control your emotions.

I’ve seen so many guys let their emotions get the better of them – and their relationships have suffered greatly because of it.

Hell… I’ve even done the same thing myself when I was younger. I used to be terrible about losing control of my emotions and flying off the hook when certain things in a relationship didn’t go my way.

Maybe my girl would be having some sort of temper tantrum and I’d lose the rag with her.

No Bueno!

I had to learn to control my emotions. I had to become more stoic and not let external factors effect me.

That is one of the big keys to having a successful relationship.

A smart man learns from the mistakes of others. So do the smart thing and learn from my mistakes – and make the upmost effort to stay in control of your emotions!

And I aint just talking about negative emotions here.

I’m talking about positive emotions too. Because not being in control of your positive emotions can also completely kill any attraction a woman has for you.

For example…

Let’s say you get chatting to a woman in a grocery store. You throw a little game her way, the pair of you are vibing and she ends up giving you her number and agrees to meet you for drinks in a couple of days.

When this happens, you’re probably going to be feeling pretty pleased with yourself.

All the game advice that you’ve been studying, and the practice you’ve been putting in is finally starting to pay off!

But if you let all of these positive emotions show in that moment, that woman’s attraction towards you is going to completely bomb.

Imagine you start jumping up and down, and pumping your fist with joy after she gave you her number.

She’d probably think you were a little weird…

And it’s highly unlikely that she’d end up meeting you for drinks after all…

I know that’s a fairly over the top example, but I just wanted to really hammer home the point that letting your emotions show too much – (both positive and negative) – will absolutely kill attraction!

Another example…

Let’s say you’ve just got done having sex with a new woman your seeing for the first time, and she was an absolute freak in the sheets. In fact, you reckon that it’s been the best sex you’ve ever had.

Should you roll over and give a big smackaroo kiss on the lips and confess to her “That was the best sex I’ve ever had!”

No way!!!

Do that and her attraction she feels for you is going to take a dive.

Instead you should just give her a little kiss on her forehead and say nothing. Let her imagination fill in the rest. Leave her wondering if you thought she was any good. Leave her questioning herself.

That’s the right way to play it!

You see, women are not attracted to men who are easily controlled by their emotions.

Why?

Because every woman knows that she can stir up emotions in any man she gets close to, and if the man lets his emotions control him, then by proxy, she can control him.

And if she can control him, it’s a sign he’s mentally weak.

And women don’t want to date mentally weak men.

So instead of letting your emotions control you, you’ve got to be in control of your emotions.

How do you do this?

It’s pretty simple. But it’ll take regular thoughtful practice at first. But before long, controlling your emotions will become second nature to you.

The trick is this:

Whenever you feel a surge of emotion – positive of negative – choose not to react. Instead, pause for a moment, take 10 deep breaths, and let the emotion die down a little.

That’s all there is too it.

With regular practice, you will slowly become more and more stoic – and thus more attractive – and being in control of your emotions will become your natural response.

I’ve laid out the blueprint here to controlling your emotions.

The rest is up to you!