How To Use “Bad Game” To Attract Women
Picture this…
You’re out at a bar and you’ve clocked an absolute stunner of a girl.
Now, the odds are that you’re not the only man in the room who’s got his eye on her – there’s competition a plenty.
But the good news is, your competition is likely quite weak. Because the reality is, most guys game sucks. Reason being, most guys don’t know what they are doing.
She’s going to get approached a ton over the course of the night, and as the night wears on she’s going to grow increasing tired of all the weesh game coming her way.
Which means, your game only needs to be slightly better than all the guys that approach her.
Which aint hard once you know what to avoid.
So help you out with that, here’s a few common examples of poor game you’d do best drop from your arsenal.
Cat calling… cheesy and overly direct openers… escalating the conversation too soon… making physical advances too soon…
And it gets worse…
You’ll see a lot of guys buying a girl a drink with the expectation that the girl should be obligated to talk to them if she accepts it. Then they get all annoyed and upset when the girl accepts the drink and bounces on them.
Let’s clear things up right here.
If you buy a girl a drink she has no obligation to talk to you. And you are under no obligation to buying girls drinks.
A man with decent game know that, and he will only buy a girl a drink if he WANTS to buy her a drink.
All this over the top game serves to do is make the guys using it look pathetic and desperate.
Keep your eye out for guys using the bad game and observe what doesn’t work.
Then do the opposite.
Instead of coming across as attention seeking and desperate, you want to give off a calm, cool and collected vibe.
So when you see a guy trying to attract a girl with bad game, all you’ve got to do is sit back and observe. Watch him fail. And once he’s been rejected, swoop on in.
You can then simply start a regular friendly conversation with girl, and so long as you don’t give off a creepy desperate vibe (like 90% of guys do) you’re going to seem like Casanova compared to all the other guys who’ve approached her that night.
If any other guys try to swoop in and talk to her after this, you can relax, safe in the knowledge that their game will likely be poor,and you’ll have already developed some rapport with her by this point.
She may even scoot over closer to you to fend over the dreadful approaches from other guys. This is a great position to be in because it frames you as a protector.
This is an ancient attraction dynamic from the days when humans still lived in caves, but its power is still relevant in the female attraction mechanism today.
When this happens, the other guys in the bar will start to back off from approaching her and progressing things from that point on should be a piece of cake!
Just remember, you don’t need to have the best game in the world to get the girl.
Being the best in the room is usually good enough.
Girls go out to bars because they want to be approached. The trouble is most guys suck at approaching, so when you come up and approach them with reasonably good game, you’re going to be welcomed.