Quit Getting Numbers, Start Getting Laid

If I could point to one particular thing that made the biggest improvement to my game, it would have to be making the mindset shift from aiming to get phone numbers – to aiming to get laid.

Now, this mostly applies to night game, and this advice is purely tailored to men interested in casual sex.

If you’re approaching a woman during the day, getting her digits is more often than not the right way to go about things.

But if you’re out at a bar or a club, give “forgetting about the digits” a try.

Getting a woman’s number at a bar or a club is a good call for those who are new to game… but if you consider yourself relatively skilled and have the basics down, you want to start forgetting about getting a woman’s number and instead be aiming to bed her the same night you meet her.

After all, it doesn’t matter how many phone number you get if none of them actually convert into dates, or sex.

And let’s be honest.

The majority of phone numbers you get at bars and clubs don’t convert into dates or sex – no matter how much of a modern day Casanova you are!

So give the following a try.

The next time you’re out, refuse to take any phone numbers. Forget about phone numbers all together.

Your one and only aim should be sleep with a woman you meet that very night.

That’s the mark of true player.

Now, whether or not you’re successful in getting a one night stand is neither here or there.

If you are successful congratz!

If not, don’t sweat it.

Simply by going out with the intention of landing a one night stand, and pulling out all the stops to attempt to make that happen, is going to improve your game immensely.

You’re actively challenging yourself to achieve more with your game.

You’re no longer happy to just settle for a phone number.

And in doing so, you’re going to save yourself a boatload of time by instantly screening out girls who are not interested in having casual sex. Because a lot of girls who aren’t looking for a bang will be happy to give out their number and string guys along, so long as the guys keep giving them the attention they crave.

When you refuse to accept settling for her number, you screen out these time wasters.

It’s an important mindset shift that has the ability to move your game level from good to great.