How To Talk To Women

I’ve had a reader write in asking the following question:

“I know how to open a conversion women, and I know how to ask for there number, but I struggle to keep an actual conversation going. What the hell am I meant to talk about?”

And it’s a great question.

Because so much game material focuses on opening lines, getting the number and getting her in bed. But very little is written about holding a conversation.

To a lot of folks, holding a conversation comes naturally.

But if that aint you, then there’s not a great deal of info to help you improve your conversation game.

But don’t worry. You’re man Vince is on the case and ready to fill in that info-void!

So let’s hop to it.

Whether you’ve approached a girl (or you’ve been lucky enough to have one approach you), there’s a certain vibe you want to give off as you’re conversing with her.

The Vibe:

You want to talk as if you’re qualifying her. You’re finding out if she’s a good fit for you and worth investing your time in (not vice versa!)

Initially keep the conversation light and jokey. Don’t go asking her what she’s studying, or what her job is. These topics are boring…

You can ask her these kinds of things further down the line once you’ve determined she’s worthy of your time. For the time being, you shouldn’t give a damn.

Conversation Lines:

Now you understand the vibe, here’s 2 conversation lines you can throw out to keep things rolling along smoothly. From my field experience and testing these lines work. Give ’em a blast yourself. See how you go.

“Do you come here often?”

It’s a stupidly simple line, but it works like a charm. It’s a good way to get a sense of what type of chick she is. If you’re out at a club and you ask this question, and she answers yes, then you know she likes to party – and likely drinks a lot.

Insightful stuff.

Another tried and tested conversational continuer is…

“Tell me about the wildest thing you’ve ever do?”

Again, how she answers this will be very insightful. And it’ll like get her telling you a story.

People love telling their own stories and talking about themselves (women especially) so this will get her happily doing a lot of the conversations heavy lifting. Which is a nice bonus if you’re not the talkative type.

From there, you can share a similar story with her from your own experience, or question her more about an interesting detail from her story.

You can easily get at least 10 – 20 minutes of great conversation out of this one simple question!

And from that point, you’ll likely have discovered lots of new things about her which are all potential tangents to take the conversation off in.

It’s dead simple. But it works.

So there you have it.

The vibe and couple of lines that’ll keep a conversation with a new woman flowing like water.

Put them to use the next time you’re out.