Does Being Bald Affect Your Dating Prospects?

A reader recently wrote in:

“Hey Vince. I’m been showing the first signs of balding for a little while now and finally decided to say screw it and just shave all my hair off. Go for that buzzed look. But my question is do you think this will affect my dating prospects?”

It’s a good question.

And the answer is it can and it can’t.

Vague, I know…

But it all depends on how you let it affect you. If you start worrying that being bald is going to throw off your game and your not going to be as successful with women, then it will do just that.

However, if you instead don’t let it affect you, and remain confident, it aint gonna matter one iota!

I’ve known guys who kill it with the ladies who have started going bald in their late twenties – and they just shaved their head and kept on smashing it.

Your confidence and your game should not be derived from whether or not you have hair on your head.

So by that logic, it shouldn’t change a thing.

In my experience, most chicks couldn’t care less if you’re bald or not – and those who do care – well that’s their loss.

There’s plenty more hot women out there who’ll dig your shaved head.

Being bald is just one of those things that you don’t have a whole lot of control over. Sure, you can mess around with Rogaine and other supplements and desperately try to cling on to what hair you have left… or you can just accept that it’s largely out of your control and not give a f*ck about it.

The only thing I’d avoid if you’re going bald is letting your balding hair grow out.

Having long balding hair is not a good look, and no amount of not caring is going to change that.

Shaved heads on the other hand are actually a hit with a lot of ladies.

So get yourself a pair of clippers and shave it regularly.

Moral of this short article?

Don’t worry about the things you can’t control. Just focus on the things you can control instead – i.e. embracing a positive, confident, mental attitude and keeping your head shaved.

Do that and going bald aint gonna change a thing.