The right girl aint just gonna come along

“Hey, don’t worry. The right girl for you will come along soon enough.”

Has anyone ever told this lie to you?

That the right girl is just going to magically come along if you wait long enough.

I honestly don’t know if they people who give this advice actually believe it or if they’re just trying to act nice, but either way, the advice is straight up bullshyzz.

It unlikely that the right girl is just going to “come along” and waltz right into your life.

I’m not saying it couldn’t happen… but it’s highly unlikely.

If you want to find that right girl you’ve got to put yourself out there.

You’ve got to approach a lot of different women (or use online dating if approaching isn’t your thing).

And you’ve got to go on a lot of dates with a lot of women.

And throughout all of this, you’re going to have a much higher chance of finding a women who’s right for you than you are if you just sit around, twiddling your thumbs, waiting for her to come to you.

You’ve got to take action if you want to get results.

And if you’re ready to start taking action, my Get Her In Bed program can show you the most effective ways to meet a lot of different women, make them attracted to you, get them out on dates, and get them into your bed.

For more info, here’s the link: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow
Vince Sutherland

The attraction doctor

Long time readers of my emails will know that I often bang on about how important it is to give off a confident vibe, if you want to create attraction in a woman.

And I’ll continue to bang on about it because it’s a fundamental principle of creating an attraction.

The way I like to think of it is you’ve got to be like a Doctor when they’re prescribing a patient some pills. I get to what I mean by this in a second… But first, a quick example.

The other day I was shooting pool at a local bar I like to occasionally go to and there was a group of guys and girls hanging out, who all looked like they were in their early 20’s.

I overheard one of the guys in the group say the following to one of the girls he obviously had the hots for:

“You know, I was just kinda wondering… if you maybe wanted to hang out sometime. Just…uhh… you and me… If you’re not too busy doing something that is.”

The guy had zero confidence. He sounded like a limp handshake. And the girl was clearly repulsed by this and politely declined his offer.

Now compare this to an approach I’ve successfully used multiple times in the past to get a girls number. (Note: I don’t use this specific tactic anymore because there are more effective ways of getting a girls number, but this still works okay.)

I’ll be talking to a girl and I will suddenly tell her “Give me your phone.”

This usually gets a confused look, or “What? Why?” response, but if you just confidently and calmly repeat “Just give me your phone. You’ll see” the girl will usually go along with it.

At this point I’d enter my number into her phone and send myself a text so I had her number. At this point I’d then hand the girl her phone back and tell her “Now you’ve got my number and I’ve got yours. I’m going to get in touch with you later this week and maybe we can go for a drink some time.”

This tactic sounds quite extreme (and it is) but it’s led to quite a few dates for me. And the reason it works is because it exudes confidence.

It’s like if you went to the Doctor and he prescribed you some pills.

If the Doctor prescribing you the pills didn’t sound very confident and said – “Here you… you should probably take one… or maybe two of these every day, or um maybe just every two days might work better.” – You’re going to think the Doctor doesn’t have a clue what he’s talking about.

Whereas if the Doctor said “take 2 of these pills the first day and one pill a day every day after that” the Doctor is going to sound a lot more confident. Therefore you’re going to trust the Doctor and you’re going to follow his (or her) instructions.

You want your Doctor to be confident.

Same goes for women. Women want their men to be confident and charismatic.

They don’t want to get into a relationship with some guy who is unsure of himself.

But how can you become more confident?

I believe there is one fundamental change every man can make to boost his confidence and charisma and I talk about it in the first section of the Get Her In Bed program.

Not only will this fundamental change boost your confidence and charisma… it’s going to eradicate your neediness and force you to live a more fulfilling and happier life.

Here’s the link:

https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

P.S. To find the fundamental change that I’m talking about enter the members’ area, click to the 5 Principles Of Attraction section and scroll down to the heading: How To Eradicate Your Neediness For Good & In Turn Become More Charismatic.

The secret to making women helplessly attracted to you

My current girlfriend said something to me the other morning which I think you’ll find quite interesting.

It succinctly sums up one of the big things that can make a woman feel a strong attraction towards a man.

Here’s word for word what she said:

“You know, the thing about you that I love is that you live such an interesting and exciting life. I feel like your life would be great with or without me in it. And I don’t know why, but for some reason I love that.”

So what are the takeaways from what she said?

1. Women are attracted to men who have things going on in their life. If you take the focus away from trying too hard to impress girls and instead focus on improving yourself and your own life, you’re going to come across as significantly more attractive to women.
2. Women are repulsed be men who are needy. When she said “I feel like your life would be great with or without me in it” she was spot on. Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy having her in my life but I don’t need her to feel happy.

And it’s this sort of outcome independence attitude that women can’t help but be drawn to.

But no matter how much effort you put into improving yourself, or how interesting a life you live, or how outcome independent you are… woman aren’t going to be able to develop an attraction to you if you’re not putting yourself out there.

That’s where my program Get Her In Bed comes in.

It’s going to show you how to bring girls into your life, and take you through what to do and say, every step of the way, from your first interaction with the girl, right through to getting her into bed.

The methods in the program can get results for average guys, even if they’re not living the most interesting lives. I know this for a fact because when I first started getting results from these methods, my life was far from interesting.

But if you’re focused on improving yourself and living an interesting life, the methods in the program are going to work like gangbusters for you.

You can find out more details about the program here: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

The best game is no game

“The best game is no game.”

I’ve heard this said by 2 completely different types of guys. One type are bang on the money and know what they’re talking about.

The other type are delusional, okay with women (but not great) and use the above saying as an excuse not to take action and improve their game. I’ll explain the real reason why the “best game is no game” is a minute, but first…

If you’re not already familiar with the term “game” when it comes to dating and relationship, “game” is simply what you do to get a girl.

Everybody has some kind of game.

If your game is great, attracting women and sleeping with them will seem like a natural easy process for you. And conversely, if your game sucks, you’ll be lucky if you can get any girl to sleep with you.

When it really comes down to it, game is a skill. And just like any skill, there are different levels to it.

The first level of game is unconscious incompetence.

At this level, your game sucks and you’re completely oblivious to how bad your game sucks. This is the lowest level of game.

The next level of game is conscious incompetence.

If you’re at this level of game, you’re still terrible with women, but you now realize just how bad your game is. Which is important, because once you know that you’re game is terrible, you can take action to improve it.

The third level of game is conscious competence.

At this level, your game has improved. You’ve learned what works and what doesn’t.

You’ve got a decent grasp of game, and are starting to see some major success with women.

But at this point you still have to actively think about how you act and what you say around women or else some of your old bad game will still slip out.

And finally, the last level of game is unconscious competence.

It takes many years of practice to get to this stage. At this stage your game is great and it’s become second nature to you. At this point you don’t have to spend any time thinking about game because it’s as natural to you as breathing.

At this level, your game is on auto pilot. Hence, the best game is no game.

Now since you’re reading these emails from me, you’ve at least reach the second level of game -conscious incompetence

If that’s where you’re at right now – you realize your game could do with being better and you’re ready to take action – then you’re in the perfect situation to benefit from the Get Her In Bed program.

And because the program is very principle focused (not just techniques and tactics) you’re going to learn the fundamental principles needed to eventually take you to that fourth level of game – where you don’t even have to think about what you’re doing because it’s just comes automatically to you.

So if you’re ready to shortcut the learning process and take you game up a level, here’s your link: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

How to talk to girls and get them attracted to you

If there’s just one thing that can dramatically increase the success you experience with women, literally overnight, it’s the ability to approach and start a conversation with a girl.

Sounds simple, right? But if you know how to approach women and start a conversation with them, you can meet more women in a single week than your average guy would meet in a whole year.

But the trouble most guys have with approaching is that they have no clue what to say.

I want you to take a little moment to be honest with yourself right now.

Ask yourself, do I really know what to say to a women I’ve just met (and what not to say) that’s going to make her feel attracted to me?

If you do, and you also know how to naturally segue this into getting her number and getting her out on a date then congratulations. You’re unlikely to have a shortage of girls in your life anytime soon.

But if not, you’re going to want to keep reading. Because learning this one skill can take you from lonely and single to having so many dating options that you have to regularly turn girls down. It’s a real game changer.
Just imagine if you had the ability to walk up to any woman, anywhere, anytime, and know exactly what to say to her to make her open to talking to you. And then know exactly how to progress the conversation to the point where she’s giving you her number and talking about meeting up with you for drinks.

Well that’s something I believe just about any man can learn to do. But unfortunately, it’s not just as simple as seeing a good looking women and saying “hey”. You’ve got to know how to make her comfortable talking to you, how to guide the conversation in the right direction (i.e. her giving you her number), as well as what NOT to do.

One of the many mistakes I see guys making when they approach a girl is that they worry about whether or not she’s attracted to him.

If instead they just assumed the girl was attracted to them, they would end up acting more confidently and in turn the girl would naturally find them to be more attractive.

But that’s just one of the many approach mistakes men make. I talk about a lot more of these in more detail in the Cold Approach section of the Get Her In Bed program, as well as:

• Word-for-word the best openers you can use to start a conversation with a girl in almost any situation. (Whether you’re at a coffee shop, sitting on a bus or working out at the gym, these openers are going to work.)
• What to talk about in the early stages of your first date with a girl that will make her feel comfortable around you, and allow her to really open up to you.
• The simple 5 question close routine you can use to seamlessly get the number of almost any girl you’re talking to
• How to accurately judge if a girl is going to be receptive to you approaching her
• A stealthy physiological secret that doubles the chances that a girl will give you her phone number

And much more…

Once you’ve discovered these crucial skills for successfully approaching women, your dating life is going to see a massive improve almost overnight.

For more details here’s the link: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

P.S. Don’t just take my word for it. Here’s an email I got from Get Her In Bed member Aaron.

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All I can say is wow!

I’m 27 and as of 2 months ago I had had sex with 3 different women in my life. The last time I got laid was in a semi-serious relationship I had with this girl just over a year ago, but she ended up leaving me to date another guy. After going through your program I now know exactly where things went wrong with her and what I could have done differently which was a real eye opener for me. Oh well. No point dwelling on the past. Your program has helped me fix my overall mindset towards women so that should never be a problem for me ever again.

Since trying out the different methods in your program for meeting new girls and creating an attraction with them I’ve been on dates with 10 different girls so far and had sex with 4 of them! Thanks to your program I’ve had sex with more girls in the last 2 months than I have had in the past 2 and half decades of my life. It’s safe to say that I’m absolutely loving life at the moment.

Thanks Vince!

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If you’re ready to change your life for better like Aaron did, here’s your link again: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed