The shocking revelation about women will blow your mind

Today I’d like to share with you a huge revelation that’s going to completely blow your mind and change the way you think forever.

So make sure your seated securely, and brace yourself for this…

Are you ready for it?

Okay… Here it comes!

Women are crazy.

Okay… so maybe I exaggerated a little. Maybe it’s not that profound a revelation. And maybe you already knew that women are crazy.

But it’s true… And here’s why.

Time and time again, women will say that they think one thing… or say that that are going to do something… and then they go ahead and do the complete opposite.

And I know… I know… Not every single women on the planet does this. So spare me the emails about how you know this one chick who’s always true to her word. I’m talking in general terms here, and it’s quite frankly staggering how often women do this.

But there is reason why this is the case.

When asked a question, most women will answer that question with whatever they think at the time. In other words, they are using logical thought.

But, when it comes time to act, most women will act based on what their emotions are telling them (and not logical thought). Hence, the difference between what they say they would do in a certain situation, or what they say they’re going to do… and what they actually do.

Let’s quickly talk about a common example.

You’re texting a girl that you first met not that long ago. You’re getting along well so you decide to organize a date at a bar the next again day.

She agrees to the date and says she’ll see you there… But, when the day of the date comes, you’re sitting at the bar waiting for her, and the girl is a complete no show.

You call the girl up to find out what happened, and she makes some lame excuse saying something came up.

If you’ve ever had that, or something similar, happen to you, then you have fallen victim of the craziness of women.

When you arranged the date, in her head she was fine with the idea of meeting with you for a date. But when the day of the date came along, her emotions were telling her not to meet with you.

And I’d argue that you were not just an innocent victim… but a willing victim.

Because here’s the thing.

You can sulk to yourself and tell yourself that women are flakey, or that they are inconsiderate… and all that might be true to some extent.

But sulking about it isn’t going to change the way that the 3.5 billion women on this planet act.

So instead of sulking, if you want to stop women flaking on you, you have to appeal to them on an emotional level.

You have to stir up her emotions.

The prospect of meeting with you has to excite her.

And how do you do that you ask?

It’s pretty straightforward when you know what do, and I talk about in depth throughout the 5 principles of attraction section of the Get Her In Bed program.

Want to join the program and the hundreds of men who are already having success with these principles?

Then here’s the link for you:

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

The void between failure and success

I want you to think back for a second to a time in your life where you felt like crap.

Maybe it was a bad break up…

Maybe you found out your girl was cheating on you with your supposedly best friend…

Maybe it was something completely different…

Whatever it is, imagine that moment in your mind for a second and remember how you felt in that moment.

Pretty terrible, right?

Now I want you to think of a time in your life where you felt on top of the world. When it felt like everything was going your way. It felt like nothing could stop you.

It’s a pretty great feeling.

And now, just take in the vast contrast between those two feelings. That is the difference between success and failure.

There’s a massive gap between success and failure. But it’s a gap that can be bridged, so long as you are driven enough to do so.

Success means a lot of different things to different people.

To some people, it might mean having complete freedom and not being tied to a 9-5 job.

To some others, it might mean owning their own private jet, and being surrounded by gorgeous models.

And to some other people, success might even mean being great at playing table tennis.

Success takes a lot of different forms, and means many different things to many different people.

And whatever success means to you, you can achieve it if you’re driven enough and willing to put the necessary work in.

And make no bones about it… You will fail along the way.

In fact, you’ll probably experience a great number failures along the way.

But when you do, you’ve got to pick yourself back up and keep moving forward towards your end goal.

And that ability to do that is often the difference between eventual success and perpetual failure.

You can minimize the amount of the failure you’ll experience though, and shortcut your path to success, by learning from those who have done what you want to achieve already.

And if you want to achieve greater success with women, that’s what the Get Her In Bed program can do for you.

I’ve already taken the path from being hopeless with women, to now having more dating options than I can handle.

And I’ve condensed all my knowledge of how you can do so do, and put it in an easy to follow program.

Now you can travel the road to success with women all by yourself if you like… But if you do, let me warn you that it’s a long road, filled with lots of ups and downs, embarrassments, and countless failures.

Or you can travel the road to success with women, armed with the knowledge of someone who has successfully traveled it already.

Now I can’t promise you that if you buy the Get Her In Bed program, you won’t experience setbacks and failures along the way.

Because you will.

But you will also minimize the amount of failures, embarrassments and set-backs you have to experience.

And you will become incredibly successful with women a lot quicker than you would otherwise.

Hell! You might even never experience the level of success with women you desire if you just try to go it on your own.

Many a man doesn’t and ends up settling for some woman that he grows to despise.

The shockingly high divorce rate is proof of that.

So if you want to shortcut your route to success with women, here’s your link:

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To your success,
Vince Sutherland

The case for unashamedly selling yourself

I have had a few emails recently, all along the same lines.

All asking the same question…

So today I’m going to address that question. (And there’s an important lesson in it too for those who read carefully)

Here’s the gist of the emails I’ve been getting.

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“Hey Vince,

I enjoy reading your emails. The advice is great.

But why do you have to sell in every email?”

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And it’s a great question.

Because it’s completely contrary to how most people go about doing things.

I don’t know if you’re signed up to receive emails from anyone else… But if you are, you’ve probably noticed that they seem to try and hide the fact that they have something for sale. They won’t mention it until you’ve read at least 10 of their emails, and then they’ll sneakily mention it in the P.S. of their email.

And in my humble opinion, they’re timidity to sell is SELFISH.

That’s right… I said they are being SELFISH.

Now, let me explain why.

When people sign up to receive emails from someone, it’s usually because they have a problem in their life that needs sorting.

That problem could be that they want to put on more muscle…

Or maybe they want to be a better writer…

Or in the case of these emails, you most likely signed up because you want to have more success with women.

Whatever the reason, the person who signs up for the emails wants to improve there life in some way, and the person sending the emails has the knowledge that can help them do that. And they also might have a book or a program (such as the Get Her In Bed program) that could really help the people reading their emails.

A program that is the solution for their reader’s problems.

So if they’ve got a product that they truly believe will better their reader’s lives, are they not doing their readers a disservice by not doing everything in their power to make their readers aware of their solution?

Is it not their moral duty to at least make sure they’re readers are aware of a solution that could change their life for the better?

I certainly think so!

And that is why you will seldom see me not promoting the Get Her In Bed program in one of these emails.

Because I truly believe in this program, and the incredible results that it can get you.

Sure… It will rub some folks the wrong way. And if it does, I encourage them to click the “unsubscribe” button at the bottom of these emails. They are free to leave at any time.

Now, if you’ve got a sharp eye and have reading between the lines, you’ll have spotted an important lesson in this email that can be applied to your dating life.

The lesson of unashamedly selling yourself.

If you see a beautiful women while you’re at the grocery store, sell yourself.

If you see a cute little hottie glancing over at you in a coffee shop, sell yourself.

And if you see a smokin hot beauty walking down the street towards you, sell yourself.

And when I say sell yourself, I’m talking about walking towards her and starting a little friendly conversation with her. And if things go well, maybe you’ll end up walking away with her number and a date on the cards.

I explain in much more detail how to successfully approach women, and get dates in the cold approaching section of the Get Her In Bed program.

You’ll know exactly what you can say to start a conversation with a woman in almost any situation…

And how to guide that conversation in a way that gets her interested in you and wanting to give you her phone number…

And how to then get her out on a date and into your bed…

And a whole lot more.

All the details for you are here:

https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Put on your dancing shoes

It’s a sad fact of life that after leaving school, college, or university, some people suddenly realize they have no idea how to meet woman, or even make friends for that matter.

And when I say some people, I think I’m talking about a large majority of people here.

This phenomenon is far from unusual.

And they’ll probably make a few friends at whatever career you go into, but finding new women to date is a whole different matter entirely.

Sure, you could hook up with that cute little secretary Suzie from your office. But mixing relationships and work is usually a terrible idea.

So what can you do if you’re in that situation yourself?

My advice:

Pick up a few new hobbies that interest you… But not just any old hobbies… You want to pick some hobbies that interest you, (and here’s the important part) that also are magnet for hot young women.

You want examples?

Okay… since I’m feeling generous I’ll give you a few:

• Art Classes – (You’ll usually find a good number of decent looking women at local art classes)
• Yoga classes – (There’s nothing wrong with being a guy who does yoga. In fact, if you’ve ever tried hot yoga, you’ll know how intense a workout it can be)
• Dance classes – (Any type of dance classes – Things like Salsa seem the obvious choice, but I’ve been to break dancing classes that have had plenty attractive women in them)

Or even spin classes at the gym, art gallery exhibition openings etc. I could go on… But by now you get the point.

And you’re probably already thinking of a few examples of your own that are more suited to your tastes.

Anyway, by taking up hobbies where you surround yourself with attractive woman, you are going to naturally end up talking to them and getting to know them.

And if things go well, it won’t be long before you have one of them out on a date, and then back into your bedroom.

Especially if you’re using the escalation techniques that I lay out in the Get Her In Bed program.

Combining the knowledge you’ll discover in the cold approaching section of the Get Her In Bed program, with the strategy of taking up hobbies that will naturally surround you with good looking women, is a very powerful combination.

Try it out and see for yourself. And if it doesn’t work out for you – or for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied with the program – shoot me an email saying so within60 days and I’ll issue you a complete refund.

You can’t say much fairer than that.

Here’s your linkage:

https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Knock em out like Ali

Today I’d like to talk about the immense power of breaking patterns, and how it can be used to great effect in your dating life.

So pull out the popcorn, or grab yourself a hot mug of tea (or whatever floats your boat) because it’s story time.

Way back in 1974, Muhammad Ali was scheduled to fight George Foreman for world heavyweight boxing championship. And if you asked anyone who knew anything about boxing, they would all tell you how the fight would pan out.

Everyone thought Foreman would be trying to land a big knockout punch, whilst Ali would dance around the ring, dodging Foreman’s punches and wearing him out. Thus allowing him to go in for the kill in the later rounds.

And everyone thought the fight would go down like this, because that is how both of those fighters always fought.

Foreman would always go for the big knock out blows.

And Ali would always strategically move around the ring, patiently waiting for the right moment to strike.

But to everyone’s surprise, that’s not how the fight would pan out.

You see, Ali had realized before this fight that fighting in this manner would put him at a great disadvantage. Foreman’s punch was incredibly powerful, and Ali realized that he wouldn’t be able to avoid it forever…

So Ali, being the great strategist that he was devised another plan.

He decided he was going to use the element of surprise and stand and bang it out with foreman, as a pose to fighting in his usual defensive style.

Foreman would not be expecting Ali fight like this, thus Ali would gain somewhat of a surprise advantage.

In a press conference before the fight, Ali was even cocky enough to reveal this strategy to Foreman, but no-one believed that he would actually slug it out with foreman.

When it came to the fight, Ali amazed and surprised everyone – including George – and did exactly what he said he was going to do.

Foreman was clearly surprised and was completely unprepared to fight Ali in such a manner.

Foreman ended up wearing himself out by throwing punches wildly, and Ali managed to land a devastating right cross that knocked Foreman out, giving Ali the win.

That’s how powerful patterns can be. You can even announce you are going to break a pattern, and people will not believe you, because they expect you to act like you always act.

And the power of breaking patterns can be used just as effectively in your dating life.

Especially if your trying to get with a girl who just doesn’t seem to be attracted to you.

Before you can make her attracted to you, you have to change her perception of you… And the most effective way to do just that is to break a pattern.

I detail out all the steps in the Reversal Attraction Method which you can find in the Get Her In Bed Program.

It works wonders at getting attraction brewing, and has even been successfully used to get guys out of the dreaded friendzone.

Powerful stuff indeed.

If you want to get your hands on this powerful knowledge, then click the linky below for all the details:

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Until Tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

That’s the attitude

“The attitude dictates that you don’t care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays.

I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin’.

Now when you got that, then you have the attitude.”

The above is a quote from the character Mike Damone from the movie Fast Times at Ridgemont High.

A cult classic of a movie from the 1980’s. I highly recommend checking it out if you haven’t seen it already.

But I’m getting off topic here…

The real reason I bring this up is because the quote perfectly sums up the attitude that you’ve got to have in order to successfully attracted women.

It’s an attitude that dictates that you never stake your happiness on the actions of some woman. No matter how much you’d like to get in her pants.

Because whatever she decideds to do, your toes are still going to be tapping.

When you put this sort of vibe out there, you’re going to find that women are magically more drawn to you. The more you don’t care whether she bangs you or not, the more she is going to want to bang you.

Now the only way to truly embody this attitude is to be a man with options. When you’re a man with options, you don’t care if a chick rejects you, because you’ve got other options. The actions of one dame is not going to bother you.

And what’s the quickest and easiest way to become a man with options?

Admittedly, I may be a little biased, but I’d have to say it’s the Get Her In Bed program.

But I’m not just tooting my own horn here. The program has already helped thousands of guys have more success with women and become men with options.

So if your sick of not having as much success with women as you’d like, you know what to do.

Come get that attitude:

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Until Tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

3 ways to handle rejection from women

Any man who ends up having at least some degree of success with women is going to face a lot of rejection along the way.

Such is the nature of the game.

Rejection sucks… No doubt about it. But you can either let it get to you, or you can handle it properly and learn how to move on from it instantly.

And to help you do just that, I’ve put together a little list of 3 ways to handle rejection from women.

So without further rambling, let’s jump on into the list.

1. Remind Yourself That Rejection Means Your Time Wasn’t Wasted

This one’s a great thing to keep in the back of your mind whenever you face rejection from a woman.

Some chicks are just won’t dig you. Maybe they don’t like your hair cut, or the tone of your voice or whatever.

That’s okay. Good for them. There’s plenty of other women out there who will want to get to know you better, and will dig you.

So if you approach a girl, start a conversation and get a quick rejection from a girl, be thankful that she’s just saved you wasting your time by talking to her for any longer.

I don’t know about you, but I’d much rather be rejected by a girl straight away, than have some girl flirt back and forth with me all night only to eventually reveal that she was just being polite and isn’t actually interested.

I know it’s a clichéd saying, but it’s also very true. Every no you hear will get you closer to a yes.

If a girl rejects you, just smile, keep calm, and move on.

2. Always Be Improving Yourself And Know Your Own Value

This one really helps takes the bite out of that feeling of rejection.

You might not be where you want to be in life right now. But so long as you’re making an effort every day to take yourself closer towards your long term goals then you are a man of great value.

And when you truly believe in your mind that you’re a man of worth, rejection of any kind will no longer bother you.

If some chick rejects you, it doesn’t matter. That’s her loss, whether she realizes it or not.

3. Develop An Abundance Mindset

And the third and final way of dealing with rejection is to develop an abundance mindset.

Rejection stings the most when you think of the girl who rejects you as being some sort of rare and special creature. But once you’ve been with at least 20 to 30 different women, you’ll soon start to realize that most women aren’t all that special or one of a kind.

I know that sounds pretty cynical, but it’s just the facts.

But the good thing about this is that if some beautiful woman with a seemingly amazing personality rejects you, it doesn’t matter.

There’s an abundance of other beautiful women out there.

You’ve just got to keep putting yourself out there in order to bring them into your life.

This mean regularly approaching and starting a conversation whenever you see a chick you like the look of.

If you want to discover how you can approach and start conversations with women that lead to dates, and how to plan dates so they lead to sex, then check out the Get Her In Bed program.

Link below for the details: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Never be a time floozy

Here’s an important little concept that the majority of men on this planet will never even contemplate, much to their detriment.

Your attention, time, and charismatic charm is to a woman, what sex is to you.

Just read that one more time and let it sink in for a second… Because when you realize that above statement is true, it’s going to take you at least half the way there to truly understanding what makes women tick… a thing many man has been trying to figure out since the dawn of the human race.

Now if you’re the kind of guy who indiscriminatingly offers up his precious time, attention, and charismatic charm to women, and those women give you nothing but friendship in return, you’re basically whoring yourself out.

You’re a time floozy.

You’re like a promiscuous chick who indiscriminately goes out and racks up a slew of notches of with men who have no intentions of committing to her.

Now if that chicks not looking for commitment, more power to her I say. But most chicks who go out and act slutty are deluding themselves. Deep down the majority of women crave commitment. It’s hardwired into their biology.

Just as it’s biologically hardwired into the biology of us men to get laid, and spread our seed.

So if all your getting back from the time and attention your giving to a girl is her friendship, you should seriously reconsider the reasons why you’re actually showering her with so much of your precious commodity, when you’re getting nothing of equal worth (a.k.a. sex) in return.

My advice? Cut off the relationship and spend your time pursuing other girls.

Or don’t… But if you’re going to act like a floozy, don’t be surprised when you get treated like a floozy.

If you’re ready to learn the methods you can use, that will ensure you get the best return on investment…

Your investment being your precious time and attention…

And your return being more pussy than you can shake a stick at from beautiful women…

Then the Get Her In Bed members area is beckoning out your name.

Here’s the link with details: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Take your balls and go home

The friendzone is cool if it’s what you want. But if you spend time with a girl you wanted to bang after she says no, you need to get yourself some hobbies.

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There are times in every man’s life where he’ll have to make a choice between nightshade and arsenic, and in cases like these the right choice is neither. You’re better off just taking your ball(s) and going home.

Whether it’s a toxic relationship you’re in, or if you’re still hanging around with some girl you’re attracted to and all she’s offering you in the friend-zone, keep your balls and walk away.

And I say keep your balls, because a man who is friends with a girl he has feelings for, but she doesn’t have the same feelings for him, is like a eunuch. A man without testicles.

(Side note: I’m not saying you can’t be friends with a woman. But if you’re just friends with a woman who you have feelings for, you’re deluding yourself.)

Most guys won’t do this though. Most guys will instead double down, try harder and give the girl more attention.

This never works. So keep your dignity, keep your balls and don’t waste your time.

Instead you should cut her out of your life completely for at least a few weeks. If not forever.

At which point you can move onto pursuing other girls, and rather ironically, cutting a girl out of your life cold turkey can actually make her attracted to you. .This is what I call stage 0 in my 4 step reversal attraction method and that works like gangbusters for getting guys out of the friend-zone.

If your feelings for the girl haven’t subsided after a couple of weeks of cutting her out of your life, you can have a second crack at creating an attraction with her.

You should read over the Reversal Attraction Method in the Get Her In Bed program before you do though. It’s ridiculous how well that method works at creating sexual attraction in girls who before were seemingly uninterested.

To get access to the Reversal Attraction Method, and all the other effective strategies within the Get Her In Bed program, just go to link below for more details:

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Keep beating your meat

Today’s email covers a bit of a touchy subject, so if you’re made of mush or easily offended, close this email now.

I’ve been hearing a lot of talk online recently about this idea that’s being referred to as “No Fap”.

If you’ve not heard of this before, it’s basically a “movement” of guys who abstain from spanking their monkey for a period of time.

This “movement” seems to have been around for a long time, but this is the first I’m hearing off it now. I guess I’m a little out of the loop.

Anyways, it seems like there are a number of reasons why guys try this No Fap thing, but one of the big ones I’m seeing is that they seem to think it will make them better at attracting women. (Bah!)

Now before hearing about the whole No Fap thing, this was actually something I decided to try out on my own many years back (for about 3 weeks), and I have to disagree with anyone who thinks this will help you become better with women.

If anything, I reckon No Fap is going to HURT your chances of attracting women.

Reason being, women can smell an agenda like a turd on a shoe.

I don’t know about you, but if I go without busting a nut for any more than a week my mind starts to go crazy. I won’t be able to think straight. I’ll have poon-tang on the brain 24/7.

And if you’re talking to a girl, and all your mind can find about is how much you want to bang her, this is going to come across in your body language (there’s no hiding it) and 9/10 times you’re going to creep her out.

That’s been my admittedly limited experience with No Fap anyway…

My advice, if you’re having a dry spell and aint getting laid as regularly as you’d like… don’t bother with this No Fap nonsense.

Beat your meat. Keep a clear head. And keep talking to new women.

And if you want to learn how to more effectively bring new women into your life, and get them into your bed – that works infinitely better than No Fap ever will – then here’s the link for you:

https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until next time,
Vince Sutherland