The 2 things all men who are successful with women have in common

There’s twos thing that every man I’ve ever met who’s really successful with women has in common.

And I’m not talking about moderately successful either. I’m talking about guys who make it seem effortless. Guys who don’t need to go out of their way to attract beautiful women, because they somehow manage to magnetically attract all the beautiful women to them.

The two things they have in common are as follows:

1. They all spent a lot of time when they were younger chasing women and learning the fundamentals of attraction and seduction.
2. They put their goals and passions on a pedestal (not women)

Now let’s take a look at these two important things in a bit more detail.

Unless you’re lucky enough to be a natural at seducing the ladies – (98% of guys aren’t) – if you want to come off as effortlessly smooth and attractive around women, you’re going to have to put in a lot of time approaching women, talking to women, and dating women. And through that practice, you’re going to drill the fundamentals of attraction and seduction to the point where they are ingrained within your personality.

Eventually you’ll reach the point where you’re just going to come off as attractive and charismatic naturally.

And when you get to that point, if you really want to see your success with women go through the roof, you need to turn your attention away from women and focus on your goals and passions.

Let the women in your life come second to your own goals and passions.

When you do these two things in combination, you’re going to find women start chasing you without you really having do to anything that special.

But note, this only works if you first put in the work and spend a good amount of time mastering the fundamentals of attraction and seduction.

And doing so on your own can easily take you upwards of 5 years… and that’s only if you’re willing to go through a truckload of trial and error. (I know this, because that’s how long it took me)

But you can shortcut the entire process and cut down the time it takes you to master this vital skill significantly with my Get Her In Bed program.

So if you’re ready to discover the fundamentals of attraction and seduction, and set yourself up for the rest of your life, here’s where you need to go:

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Never stop being Superman

The advice is this email is mainly for guys who are in a relationship right now… but even if your single at the moment, you’d do well to read this so you can avoid make this deadly mistake when you do end up in a relationship.

And I say deadly mistake because this one is a real relationship killer.

The mistake?

Letting your girl become your #1 focus in life, and changing yourself for her.

Case in point, here’s an example from the movie Superman 2. I know you’re probably thinking what on earth does a super hero movie from the 80’s have do with relationships.

So let me tell you.

In the movie, Lois Lane discovers that Clark Kent is Superman. Lois convinces Kent that they would be able to become romantically closer if he gave up his Superpowers and became a regular person just like her. And Superman does just that.

Problem being, Lois Lane fell in love with Clark Kent because he was Superman.

Long story short, Clark Kent ends up getting beaten up, Villains start running wild and Kent has to travel all the way to Antarctica to get his superpowers back.

And he got into all of this trouble, all because he gave up his superpowers for a women.

Moral of story. Never change who you are to appease a woman.

When you get into a relationship with a woman, all too often she will try to change you in some way or another. And if you let her change you, she’ll lose all respect and attraction for you and possibly end up leaving for some guy who was like the person you used to be.

I’m not certain of the reasons why woman do this, but I’ve witnessed it time and time again, so it’s definitely a recurring phenomenon.

The solution? Never compromise yourself for a woman.

If you want to have a successful long lasting relationship with a woman, you will have to make compromises. As will she. Relationships are all about making little sacrifices so you can both live a more fulfilling life with each other.

But there’s a big difference between making compromises, and compromising who you are as a person.

The former is healthy and necessary. The latter should be avoided at all costs.

I talk about how to do this in way more detail in principle #1 of the 5 principles of attraction, that you’ll find in the Get Her In Bed program.

The small lifestyle change I talk about at the end of that first principle is a real game changer. And not just for your love life… It’s going to help you improve every area of your life in general.

It’s very powerful stuff.

If you want to check it out, here’s the link to become a member: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Why you should flirt with UGLY women

I’m a firm believer in the motto “Always Be Flirting”. When you put the motto into practice, it means you should be flirting with every woman you come into contact with.

Yes… even with women that you don’t find attractive and have ZERO interest in.

Even if the woman is old enough to be your grandma, or just plain ugly, you’d be doing yourself a favor by flirting with her.

Let me explain.

Picture this scenario. You see a beautiful women walking down the street and you decide you’re going to approach her, start a conversation with her and see how it goes.

Now if you’ve not flirted with another women so far that day, how do you think the interaction is going to go?

In my experience at least, I reckon my conversation with her would probably feel a bit forced. The reason being that I haven’t had a chance to warm up.

Whereas if I’d been flirting with multiple women earlier that day, things are likely to go much more smoothly… and if she’s single and looking for a guy I might even end up walking away with her number.

That’s just my experience, but I’ve noticed this with a lot of guys I’ve personally worked with when doing approaches.

It’s very difficult to just flip a switch in your brain and immediately be on your flirting A game. It’d be like a sprinter running the 100 meters without warming up. If they don’t warm up, they’re not going to able run nearly as fast as could.

So for that reason, I’m a big advocate of doing a little bit of flirting with every women you come into contact with. You don’t have to be overtly flirtatious. You can be subtle flirt. But you’ve got to be flirtatious.

You want to become a flirtatious man.

When I made the decision to start being more flirty in my everyday interactions, not only did I find approaching women to be easier, but people started treating me with more warmth and my world just became a much more enjoyable place.

Give it a try yourself. Start flirting with every women you come into contact with (with the exception of your female relatives… That would just be weird)

By doing so you’re going to guarantee that you’re always switched on. So when you see that dime piece walking down the street, you’re going to be in the right state of mind to approach her.

If you want to take your flirting game to the next level, check out my Get Her In Bed program.

In it you’ll discover 5 incredibly effective flirting techniques you can use on any girl, any time to create an undeniable amount of sexual tension.

Just dial these back a little when using them on girls you’re not that interested in and you’ll be good to go.

Here’s the link: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow
Vince Sutherland

Some guys will always suck with women… Here’s why

The sad, unfortunate truth is… there are some guys that will always suck with women.

And they’ll either end up giving up on the idea of having a relationship with a women completely… Or worse… they’ll settle for a relationship with a women, who they know in the back of their mind that’ll they’ll eventually grow to despise.

And the real reason these guys will always suck with women isn’t because they’re too ugly… too shy… not rich enough… or any other of the usual poor excuses.

The world is full of guys who are ugly, introverted or broke… and plenty of these same guys do very well with women.

The real reason some guys will also suck when it comes to women is simply because they just can’t see themselves ever being wildly successful with women.

They just can’t fathom it.

They don’t know even where to begin, or what they would have to do to make women attracted to them.

They don’t believe it’s possible for them.

When they imagine what their life will be like in 5 years’ time, they don’t see themselves waking up to see some beautiful women lying next to them in nothing but some skimpy lace underwear.

Instead they imagine themselves waking up alone, with a thumping hangover from all the booze they drank so they could temporarily forget about how lonely they feel, and a scrunched up Kleenex laying on their bedside table from their late night self-love session.

Take a quick moment to think for yourself… What scene do you imagine yourself waking up to in 5 years’ time?

If you imagined the second scene… you’ve got some believe issues that need fixing pronto, and there’s no better way to do this than arming yourself with attraction and seduction principles that work, and having the guts to put them into practice.

If you imagined the first scene, congratulations. You’ve already got the level of believe it takes to become extremely successful with women.

All you need is the know-how.

And that’s exactly what my “Get Her In Bed” program will give you.

So if you want to practically download my brain – and all my hard earned knowledge of what really works with women – then here’s your link:

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

No more Mr Nice Guy

“Hey, you’re a nice guy and you’re really sweet and all… But I just don’t feel attracted to you.”

Have you ever had a girl tell you something along those lines?

If so, you were probably suffering from a bad case of nice guy syndrome… And you might still be suffering from a bad case of nice guy syndrome…

Now you might be thinking to yourself. “Hang on a minute Vince… What’s so bad about being nice?”

Well here’s my take on the matter.

Being nice is one of the worst things you can do… to both yourself and everyone else around you.

What has being “nice” ever done for you?

Being “nice” will get you dumped, friend zoned, taken advantage of, and preyed upon.

Being “nice” creates false expectations of you in the minds of those you are “nice” to.

Being “nice” to those who have not earned your generosity is flat out self-destructive.

This doesn’t mean you should go around acting like some kind of jackass though. You can be kind to people, and treat people with respect, so long as they show you the same respect.

But nice?

No.

Never.

Disregard this advice at your own peril.

If you’re sick of being the “nice guy” and not getting the girls you desire, you’ll want to take a look at my short report on “Killing Your Inner Nice Guy”.

It’s exclusively available completely free to members of the Get Her In Bed program. (if you’re already a member, you’ll find it in the bonus section)

Here’s your link: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

If you sign up to the program today, you’ll also get access to another 4 additional bonus reports. These include:

** Signs Of Interest Report **

In this bonus report, you’ll discover:

• How to accurately read and decode both the verbal, and non-verbal signals a girl is sending you
• How to tell if a girl secretly hoping that you’ll approach her
• How to tell whether a girl you’ve just started talking to is actually interested in you
• How to tell if a girl you’re dating has lost interest in you and what you can do about it
• And much more…

** How To Get Rid Of Your Approach Anxiety For Good – Report **

In this bonus report you’ll discover:

• The deep-rooted genetic reason behind the fear of approaching beautiful women
• A fool-proof method of getting over your fear of approaching girls for good
• And much more…

** Breaking Up Mini Report **

When you start having success with the Get Her In Bed system, you’re going to have so many dating options, that sooner or later, you’re probably going to want to break up with a girl.

The Breaking Up Mini Report will show you the right way to do just that.

In it you’ll discover:

• The 4 step method to break up with a girl, which will ensure minimal drama and nice clean break
• How to react when a girl breaks up with you, that will leave her questioning herself whether she made the right decision
• And much more…

** How To Fuck Her Properly **

If you’ve ever had any niggling doubts about your sexual ability, or if you just want to start enjoying better sex, you’ll want be sure to check out this special bonus report – How To Fuck Her Properly

In it you’ll discover:

• The shocking truth about what really turns women on sexually… and why most men leave women feeling unsatisfied
• A complete guide to talking dirty – Make her wet and horny using only your voice and words
• How to deal with cumming too quickly in a way that will actually turn your girl on – And how to eradicate premature ejaculation altogether if you find it’s a recurring problem
• How to give a girl multiple orgasms – This technique is very easy to learn and works on almost every single girl, no matter how much she struggles with having orgasms
• And much more…

Here’s your link again: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland