$65k in child support, for a kid that aint his

The other day I was reading this article about a man from Texas who was on the hook for $65,000 in child support… Even though the kid wasn’t his!

Way back in 2003 the court ruled that he had to pay child support, because his ex-girlfriend has stated that there was no way he wasn’t the father.

13 years later, the man was finally able to get a DNA test carried out on himself and the child, which proved that he was not the father.

But the courts have still ruled that he must pay all the child support that was due before the DNA results were confirmed.

Absolutely crazy!

The reason I bring this story up is because this is a situation that just about any guy could get into if he isn’t careful.

Especially if he doesn’t have a deep understanding of underlying relationship dynamics at play in these types of situations. Which most guys don’t, because they’re never taught this stuff, and most don’t go out of their way to learn about it.

Let’s take a look at the average profile of a guy who is most likely to end up in the awful situation.

He’s probably a “nice guy”. He loves and cares about girlfriend/wife. He has a stable job and is viewed by his girlfriend/wife as a good potential provider if they were to have a baby together.

He sounds like a great catch… but he just doesn’t sexually excite the girl that much.

She likes the benefits or having a caring partner, with a stable job and good income… but she wants some sexual excitement in her life.

So she ends up cheating on him on the sly with some guy who she does find sexually exciting. And she ends up getting knocked up by this guy.

But she knows the guy she’s cheating with would not be a good provider, so she tries to pass the child off as her boyfriend/husbands baby instead and hopes he doesn’t question it.

That’s how these sorts of situations almost always play out.

And if you think that this would never happen with your girl, because “your girl is not like that”… Don’t be so sure.

Because if there is one thing that I’ve learned over the years, it’s that almost every girl has a dark side.

And the most seemingly sweet and innocent women will for sure cheat on their boyfriends and husbands if they’re not having their sexual desires fully fulfilled.

The only way you can be sure this won’t happen to you is to have a deep understanding of factors drive attraction in a woman’s mind, and amplify those factors in your own personality.

And you can learn all of that and more in the Get Her In Bed program.

It’s a lot cheaper than $65,000 in child support…

So cheat-proof yourself today, and get with the program:

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

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Don’t be a bore in the bedroom

There are very few things in the world that are more pleasurable than having some really great sex.

But the fact of the matter is, most of us aren’t having the best sex that we possibly could be.

Being great in the bedroom is a skill, and according to a lot of the women I’ve talked to about this, it’s a skill that not many guys take the time to learn.

Don’t believe me?

According to a study carried out by British researchers, 80% of the women questioned reported to faking orgasms at least half of the times that they have sex.

The same study also found that 25% percent of women faked orgasms over 90% of the time.

Worrying figures indeed.

Now, I’m not saying that guys sucking at sex are entirely to blame here. There’s plenty of chicks who are wack in the sack too, and just lay there like dead starfish.

And there are even some women who couldn’t get themselves off, even if their life depended on it.

There’s not a lot you can do about that.

But if you want to start having better a sex life, you got to focus on factors that you can control. I.e. Yourself.

If you’ve ever had any niggling doubts about your ability to perform in the bedroom, you’d be doing yourself a huge favor by reading the “How To Fuck Her Properly” special report.

It’s a free bonus report that’s available to everyone who joins the Get Her In Bed program.

At 21 pages, it’s a quick read that can easily be digested in one sitting… But don’t let its small size full you. It’s packed full of practical information that’s going to take your sex to the next level.

Including…

• A complete guide to talking dirty – Make her wet and horny using only your voice and words
• The shocking truth about what really turns women on sexually… and why most men leave women feeling unsatisfied
• How to deal with cumming too quickly in a way that will actually turn your girl on
• And… How to give a girl multiple orgasms – This technique is very easy to learn and works on almost every single girl, no matter how much she struggles with having orgasms

When you have the power to give your girl intense multiple orgasms, whenever you like, you’ll never have to worry about her leaving you, or you cheating on you. It just aint gonna happen.

Despite a number of requests, the How To Fuck Her Properly report is not for sale on its own anywhere. Nor will it ever be.

That would be unfair on all the guys who are already members of the program.

So the only way to feast your hungry eyeballs on this special report is to join the Get Her In Bed program.

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

When you should let a woman take the lead

Today’s email advice for the guys already in relationships.

If that aint you (but you want to get into a relationship in the near future), read this email, store the info away in your memory bank for later, and join the Get Her In Bed program to get that relationship problem sorted.

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With the shameless self-promotion out of the way, let’s get on with the topic of today’s article…

“When you should let a woman take the lead”

If you’re a regular reader of these articles, you’ll be well aware of how much I stress the importance of taking the lead with women. Women want a man who takes initiative.

But, if you start to get into a semi-serious relationship with a girl, there are a couple of areas in which you’re better of letting your woman take the lead.

The first of which is “Making your relationship exclusive.”

You should never be the one to initiate the conversation about making your relationship with her exclusive, or asking her to move in with you, or anything like that.

If you want your relationship to work, you’ve got to be the one to let her make the first move when it comes to talking about “exclusivity”.

Reason being – (and this harks back to what I was talking about in yesterday’s article) – the moment you make yourself too easily attainable, is the moment her attraction to you is going to start to wither away.

If you haven’t read yesterday’s article on this topic, I’ll quickly summarize the takeaway: To maximize how attractive you are to women, you have to strike a balance between being “too available” and “too unavailable”.

And being the one to initiate the conversation about exclusivity falls into the category of being way too available.

Whereas, if she’s the one to initiate “the talk” and asking for exclusivity, the power is your hands.

And you might be thinking to yourself right now, “But what if I want a relationship with a girl, but she never asks? What do I do then?”

If you’re spending time with a girl at least twice a week – (and when I say spending time, I mean also hanging out… Not just having sex) then after about 2 and half months (this happens like clockwork), you can be almost certain she’ll start asking you where the relationship is heading and she will initiate the talk.

And if she doesn’t?

Well, I’ve never had this happen. But if it did, it be a pretty big warning sign that something wasn’t right and I highly doubt any sort of long term relationship would work out in this situation.

And when she does initiate the talk, you’ve got to play it cool. You don’t agree to being exclusive with her straight away.

Once again… you don’t want to seem like you’re “too available”.

Tell her that “I’ll have to think it over”.

Then decide in your own good time about whether or not you really want to get into a serious relationship with her right now.

And as for the second thing that you should let women take the lead with?

It’s using the word “Love”.

Or confessing your feelings for her in any sort of way.

A women should always be the first one to say “I love you.”

A women should always be the first one to bring up the topic of how you feel about each other.

The reasons behind this, are the same reasons behind point number one.

Telling a girl you love her too soon (i.e. before she tells you) puts all the power in her hands, and can have the disastrous effect of diminishing the attraction she feels towards you.

So never say “I love you” until she says it to you first.

And this doesn’t mean you need to say it to her immediately after she’s confessed her love for you.

There’s no rush.

You can play it cool and tell her at a later date.

Anyway, that about wraps up today’s article.

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Break the pattern to get the girl

Upfront, I’m going to warn you, today’s email probably isn’t going to be that popular with a lot of readers… But if you’re one of the people who takes the time to read and really think about the concept I’m about to share, it can completely revolutionize the way you think about every single relationship in your life.

So let’s jump in.

When you really get down to thinking about it, every single relationship in your life right now is made up of patterns.

Behavior patterns of how you act around certain people…

Speech patterns of how you talk and what you say around certain people…

And thought patterns of how you think about certain people, and how they think about you…

And once one of these patterns is created, it becomes very hard to break this pattern and change the way you behave, speak and think around people, and how they behave speak and think around you.

A great example of one of these patterns is the classic case of the friend-zone.

If a women gets into the pattern of thinking of a guy as a friend, she isn’t suddenly going to think to herself one day: “Oh, you know, that guy’s really nice. Maybe I should give him a chance to bang me sometime.”

It just aint gonna happen.

And it’s not for a woman’s lack of a dirty mind. Because believe me, I know a lot of women like to give off the impression that they’re all pure and innocent a lot of the time. But the dirty thoughts some of them think are 10 times filthier than the typical thoughts that go through most guy’s heads.

Anyway, to get back on point…

The reason she is never going to suddenly view a guy she views as a friend in a sexual masculine light is because she’s got into the pattern of thinking of him in an asexual nature as just her friend.

In other words, the guy is stuck in the friend-zone.

And the only way for him to escape the friend-zone is for him to do something that’s capable of breaking her current thought pattern, and then changing his behavior patterns so she starts perceiving him in a more masculine light, as someone who could be a potential sexual partner.

It’s easier said than done… but it is definitely possible

In fact, it’s actually quite easy to pull off if you know what you’re doing. I’ve finely tuned a simple 4 stage plan that I call the reversal attraction method that breaks the whole process down into easy to follow steps that can take you from being trapped in friend-zone with a girl with no obvious way out, to having that same girl naked with you in your bed.

It’s a simple process, but it works like crazy.

If you want to try the method out for yourself, you can find it in the Get Her In Bed members area.

Here’s the link with all the details: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

P.S. Not sure whether my Get Her In Bed program is right for you? Try it today, completely RISK FREE, and if for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied with the program, just contact me within 60 days of signing up and I’ll give you a full refund.

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Get busy dating or get busy dying

Is your relationship life where you want it to be right now?

Have you met the girl of your dreams yet?

Or are you still looking for her?

Chances are, you’re still looking for her. And that’s fine… but what are you doing about it?

Because unless you get incredibly lucky, the girl of your dreams isn’t just going to fall onto your lap.

What are you doing to bring yourself closer to finding that girl of your dreams? That girl who is worthy of your commitment?

I know you’re probably busy doing a hundred other things, be that studying, working to pay the bills, browsing social media… etc.

But those are all poor excuses not to be doing something each day to improve your relationship life. And when I say “do something each day” I’m not talking about anything major that’s going to eat up massive chunks of your time.

It can be something as simple as approaching a pretty girl you see, starting a conversation with and asking her for her number. Or it could mean firing off 10 messages on your online dating account to various girls that seem like they might be a good match for you.

But you should be doing something.

Because every day you don’t do something, your hopes and dreams of finding that right girl are dying on the vine.

Last night I was re-watching one of my favorite movies of all time. The Shawshank Redemption. And to paraphrase the main character Andy Dufresne, “It’s time to get busy dating, or get busy dying.”

Commit yourself to doing at least one thing every day, be that an approach, a date, or whatever… and see what kind of results you get.

That’s my free advice to you.

And because it’s free, it probably won’t be valued as much as it should be. But I’m sure that if you’re one of the people who do act upon it, you’ll be pleased with the results.

If you want guidance on how best to approach women, get their digits and effortless get them out on dates… or you want to know how to crush online dating in such a way that you’ll stand out from 90% of the other guys using it (meaning you’ll be the one swooping up all the chicks)… or if there’s a girl in your life right now that you want to take things further with, but you’re not quite sure how…

Then the Get Her In Bed program is going to be of immense assistance to you.

It aint cheap.

But it is a bargain when you realize just how much time, and money spent on dates that would have led to nada that you’ll end up saving because of it.

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Until tomorrow
Vince Sutherland

Accidental psychological discovery is helping men everywhere “get lucky”

I got a lot of responses from yesterday’s email asking me more about the Reversal Attraction Method, so due to popular demand, I’m going to tell you a bit more about this powerful method today.

Specifically, I’m going to tell you the story of how I first accidentally stumbled across this psychological phenomena in my own life.

A long, long time ago, in a land not so far away, youngen’ Vince was a horny teenager with zero clue how to woo the ladies into his bed. But young Vince’s parents were going to be out of town for the weekend, so he took it upon himself to seize this opportunity and do whatever he could to get some action.

In a cringe worthy and fairly embarrassing attempt to get some action I not so subtly asked this girl – who I was friends with but had shown no prior sexual interest in – to come round to mine at the weekend to “get it on”.

This “out of the blue” request took her by surprise and she rejected my invitation. (I can still remember the pang of rejection I felt in my chest.)

Long story short, I didn’t end up getting any action that weekend and in the following moths I moved on to unsuccessfully pursuing other girls.

But a couple of months later something strange happened.

The girl who I’d asked to come round to my place that weekend started coming on to me. She’d drop hints that we should hang out sometime. She even called me up on one of her friends’ phones to play some “pop love song” down the phone to me.

And the only interest I had shown her over those past 2 months was polite friendly conversation.

Now I picked up on the signs that the girl was extremely interested in me at the time, but I was too busy unsuccessfully pursuing some other girl at the time and didn’t do anything about it. Doh!

But looking back at that interaction, I now realize what I did to make that girl attracted to me. I had basically ran a dumbed down version of the reversal attraction method on her.

Now you’ve read this story, you might even be able to think back to where you’ve experience this same phenomenon in your own love life.

The reversal attraction method that I teach in the Get Her In Bed program is a much more fine-tuned version of this, that is much more effective at creating a strong attraction in a girls mind who currently feels zero attraction towards you. But the core principles of the method remain the same.

The method has already worked for hundreds of Get Her In Bed members to “get lucky”, and there’s no reason it can’t work for you to.

So if you’ve got a girl in your life right now that you wish was attracted to you, give the Reversal Attraction Method a go and let me know how you get on.

I’m sure you’ll be pleased with the results.

To get the method, just join the Get Her In Bed program and click to the “Girl In Your Life” section of the members area.

Here’s the link: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Why you should NEVER take dating advice from women

From time to time, you’ll probably come across some well-intentioned woman trying to give you some unsolicited dating advice.

And a lot of foolish guys will eagerly listen to this advice thinking they’re getting the inside scoop. (They’re not)

Whilst the woman giving the advice usually has the best of intentions, 9 out of 10 times the advice she gives will be terrible.

The reason?

It all links into the hunter-prey phenomenon.

For a moment let’s pretend that you want to learn how to hunt elk, and let’s also pretend that elks can talk and speak perfect English.

If you wanted to learn how to hunt elk, who would you ask?

The elk or the hunter?

If you wanted to learn the best way to hunt an elk, you wouldn’t ask the elk. Because the elk doesn’t know how to hunt elk. The elk has never hunted elk before. And the elk will never hunt elk in their life.

The right person to ask how to hunt elk is the hunter.

Same thing goes for women.

Don’t listen to a woman’s opinion on how they think a guy can go about attracting more dames and getting more dates… because they simply don’t know what they’re talking about.

Instead you’re better off learning from the hunters. The guys who are already successful with women and have no trouble getting dates.

And that’s the mindset I like to in my Get Her In Bed members, because I know the guys in the program with that mindset are going to get some really great results.

If you’re going to continue to listen to the advice of elk, there’s nothing I can do to help you

But if you’re wise and ready to ignore the elk, and ask the hunter, then go get it.

Here’s the URL: https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Vince’s wicked ways get virgins lays

Feast your eyeballs on this email I recently received from Get Her In Bed member, Allen.

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Just wanted to write you a quick email to give you a massive thanks.

Until last night I was a 25 year old virgin. It was something that I was really insecure about, so it feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. But Hey! At least I wasn’t 40 like that movie. haha

Your Get Her In Bed program helped me lose my virginity to a beautiful 23 year old brunette that I met by using your online dating methods. We get along really well so far, so who knows? Maybe a good relationship will come of it.

Anyway. Massive thanks to you.

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As you can see it’s not all hoo-ha and puffery. The Get Her In Bed program gets results.

Whether you’ve got a girl in your life right now that you want to progress things further with…

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Or you want to discover how to walk up to practically any girl and be walking away with her number 10 minutes later…

The Get Her In Bed program can show you how to do all of that and more.

And I’m so confident that the Get Her In Bed program will get you results, I even offer a 60 day money back guarantee. If for whatever reason you aren’t completely satisfied with the program, contact me within 60 days and I’ll give you all your money back – no questions asked.

You can’t say fairer than that.

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

Why you MUST play games with the women you date

Following on from yesterday’s email about “Game”…

Women love to say how they “don’t play games”.

Take a look at the profile of various women on any online dating site and you’ll be sure to quickly see something along those lines of “I don’t play games” or “I don’t have time for guys who play games”.

But what do these same women go out and do?

They play games of their own and can’t help but pursue the guys who play games with them. And they quickly get bored of guys who don’t play games.

And you can bet your bottom dollar that these are the same girls who complain about how there are no nice guys left to date, meanwhile they chase after “bad boys” and friendzone any nice guys they know.

Always pay more attention to what a women does, than what she says. Because a lot of times the two don’t jive.

So regardless of what women say, you’ve got to play the game if you want to attract and bed the girls that you desire.

Like the late comedian Patrice O’Neal used to say, “Women don’t want to win, they want a winner.”

And he’s spot on.

The women in your life will constantly play games with you. Whether it’s playing hard to get, or being flakey, or teasing you etc.

When they do this, they’re testing you to see how you react. And if you want the girl to stick around, you’ve got play her games, and beat her at her own games.

You’ve got to win the games because women want a winner.

My Get Her In Bed program will show you exactly how to beat women at their own games, as well as how to have a little fun playing some games of your own.

You’ll also discover an effortless way to handle a girl’s loaded questions and pass every test she throws at you… even if you don’t know you’re being tested – And best of all, you’ll be increasing her attraction and respect towards you every time you do this.

For more info on the Get Her In Bed program, check out the link below:

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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland