Is She Insulting You Or Testing You? – How To Pass Any Shit Test

Wouldn’t it be fantastic if picking up women were easy?

… If you could just walk up to a woman, declare your interest in her, and make her yours?

But alas, that’s not the way things work and dating and relationships are much more complex – and often times counter-intuitive.

And perhaps one of the most counter-intuitive things you’ll ever come across is what’s commonly referred to as “the shit test.”

For those unfamiliar with this lingo, a shit test is when a woman verbally insults you.

And the reason behind these insults are not malice, hatred or meanness. And it definitely doesn’t mean she isn’t interested in you.

Oh, no.

Quite the opposite in fact.

Which is why you can never take what a woman says at face value. (Hint: Pay more attention to what a woman does, rather than what she says!)

The real purpose behind a woman’s insulsts is that she is testing you. In a way she’s trying to see how much of a man you are. She’s testing you to see how well you can handle being insulted.

Reason being… If you can’t handle an insult from some random woman you barely know, then how on earth are you going to handle all the other shit life throws at you?

On a deep biological level, women are attracted to men who can take care of themselves, and handle tough situations.

So if a woman throws an insult your way… chances are that she’s already somewhat attracted to you. Otherwise, she wouldn’t even bother testing you in the first place.

And how you respond to her insult will greatly affect your chances of whether or not things will ever go any further between you and her.

Pass her shit test… and you could end up her in your bed that very night.

Fail her shit test… and in her eyes you will go from “potential mate” to “completely unfuckable”.

Quite a difference…

So by now you should be starting to see just how important it is to be able to pass a woman’s shit tests.

Which begs the question, how do you do it?

How do you pass a shit test?

Well wonder no more, because I’m about to show you a fool proof way to pass any shit test a woman can throw at you.

In order to pass a shit test, you first have to understand exactly what a shit test is.

A shit test is a woman’s attempt to “control the frame”.

Or in other words… she is trying to frame the situation in a certain way that paints an unflattering picture of you.

So the way to pass any shit test is to simply re-frame the situation in a way that paints you in a better light.

This is best illustrated with an example, so I’ll give you one.

Here’s a common shit test you might hear if you’ve met a woman at a club and you’ve been talking for a little while.

“Just so you know, I’m not having sex with you tonight.”

In this situation she’s framing the situation as such: You want to fuck her tonight, but the only reason that isn’t happening is because she’s decided so.

In this frame, it paints her as holding all of the power, and you holding none of the power.

So to beat this shit taste you simply flip the frame. And you can do so with any of the following lines:

“Sex? Now I know what you’re thinking about.”
“Get your mind out of the gutter!”
“Who said we’re having sex?”
“I know we’re not. I’ve not figured out if you’re my type yet.”

And that’s all there is to it.

So the next time a woman throws a insults you, don’t take it personally.

It’s just a test… (and a good sign that she’s probably into you)

Simply re-frame the situation and see how she reacts.

She might then throw more shit tests at you to really see what you’re made of…

…but so long as you keep re-framing the situation, you can’t go wrong!