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Why You Should Never Take Your Ex Back

If you’ve ever went through a bit of a dry spell with the ladies, the idea of getting back with your ex might seem quite appealing.

It can seem a lot easier to reach out, and rekindle that old flame, as opposed to going out and finding some “fresh meat”.

Maybe your ex is even reaching out to you and trying to pick things up again…

…and if you’ve not been laid in while, you might even get to thinking it’s a good idea.

If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone.

“How can I get my ex back?” is one of the most Googled relationship queries of all time – and there’s plenty of advice (good and bad – mostly bad) lurking around on the internet telling you how you can do just that.

But that’s not what today’s article is about.

No… Instead, I’m going tell you why you should never get back with your ex, and how doing so can actually hurt your game.

How so, you ask?

And it’s a good question. You might be thinking to yourself: “What’s the harm?” People hook up with their ex’s all the time, and we might end up getting back together. So why not?

Right?

Wrong!

Hooking up with your ex is backward step in your development into becoming the best possible version of yourself.

For starters, she’s an ex for a reason.

And over time you the reasons why you broke up might have faded a little in your mind… or maybe you think that you’ve both changed enough to give it another try… but that’s all a load of old baloney.

If you were not compatible once, you’re highly unlikely to compatible when you give it another shot.

Your ex was not “the one and only”.

There’s an abundance of other high quality women out there.

Have you ever heard the saying that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results?

Well, that’s exactly what you’re doing when you try to hook up with your ex.

You’re being insane, and it will almost always end badly.

So that’s just one big reason why you shouldn’t be getting back with you ex.

But there’s a bigger reason.

A more important reason.

And that is that reaching out and trying to hook up or get back with your ex WILL hurt your game.

If you want to improve your game, and skills at seducing women, then the only way to do so is to go out and approach and talk to new women. You want to rack up as much experience as you can with talking to different types of women, from different backgrounds, with different interests.

When you do this, you’ll start to recognize different patterns, the dots will slowly start connecting in your brain, and your game skills with skyrocket.

And obviously, you’re not going to be out there racking up new experiences if you’re too busy wasting your time trying to get back with your ex-girlfriend, attempting to re-kindle a failed relationship which is only destined to fail again.

And a big reason why getting back with your ex is ultimately destined to fail is because of “neediness”. The only reasons why you would ever choose to try and get back with your ex is because you feel like you “need” her in your life… or you’ve not been laid in a while and you “need” to get some action.

And there’s nothing more unattractive to a woman than a desperate or needy man.

She might also be desperate and needy and end up taking you back temporarily, but as soon as shes got some other options lined up, she’ll dump your ass faster than a Kenyan sprinter.

So instead forget your ex and move forward.

Until you eventually do meet the love of your life – game and seduction is all about progressing forward, experiencing new things with new women, and having fun.

Obsessing over getting back with you ex will only stunt your growth as a man.

Keep putting yourself out there, honing your game skills and meeting new women.