Seduction secrets of a Castaway

Yesterday it was Superman… Today it’s Castaway. That’s right, I’m back with more relationship lessons from the silver screen.

*Spoiler warning* I’m about to reveal parts of the plot of Castaway so if you’ve not seen that movie and are planning on watching it you’ve been warned. (Although it came out back in 2000, so if you’re going to watch it you probably would have done so already)

Anyways,

In the movie, a man (played by Tom Hanks) becomes marooned on island in the middle of nowhere after his plane crash lands in the Ocean. His only company on the island… a volleyball with a face drawn on it.

He thinks he’s never going to make it off the island, so he thought that the only thing he could control was how he died.

So he made a rope, and climbed to the summit to hang himself. Upon testing the tree he was going to hang himself from, the limb of the tree snapped… He felt powerless… he didn’t even have the power to end his own life.

“And that’s when this feeling came over me like a warm blanket. I knew, somehow, that I had to stay alive. Somehow. I had to keep breathing.”

And keep breathing he did.

Eventually the fiberglass walls of one of those portable toilets wash up on shore and he manages to use them as a sail to get off the island and return home. But the only reason he ever managed to get off that island is because he did whatever it took to keep breathing.

So you’re probably thinking right about now, that’s all well and good Vince, but how does this relate to relationships?

Well women are a dime a dozen. There’s at least 3.5+ billion of them on the planet right now.

But finding the right woman to get into a serious relationship with. A woman who is capable of meeting your high standards that you should most certainly have. (Quick side note: If you’re going to have high standards for women, you also need to set high standards for yourself and hold yourself to those standards. But that’s a topic for another day…)

A quality woman worthy of your commitment is a lot rarer.

She’s a bit like the fiberglass walls of a porta-potty, and you’re Tom Hanks marooned on an island.

And the only way you’re going to find that right woman is if you keep breathing, keep approaching new women, keep getting phone numbers, and keep going on dates until you find the right one.

My recommendation?

Make the effort to approach and start a conversation with at least one new woman every single day.

Not every one of them is going to be looking for a relationship, not every one of them is going to be right for you. But so long as you keep putting yourself out there, you’re going to eventually come across the right woman for you.

And if you don’t know what to say to start a good conversation with a woman, or if you don’t know how best to guide the direction of the conversation so you end up with her digits and date on the cards… then don’t worry.

I explain how do all of that in Get Her In Bed program.

Want to get off the island? Then here’s the link for you:

https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland