Take your balls and go home
The friendzone is cool if it’s what you want. But if you spend time with a girl you wanted to bang after she says no, you need to get yourself some hobbies.
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There are times in every man’s life where he’ll have to make a choice between nightshade and arsenic, and in cases like these the right choice is neither. You’re better off just taking your ball(s) and going home.
Whether it’s a toxic relationship you’re in, or if you’re still hanging around with some girl you’re attracted to and all she’s offering you in the friend-zone, keep your balls and walk away.
And I say keep your balls, because a man who is friends with a girl he has feelings for, but she doesn’t have the same feelings for him, is like a eunuch. A man without testicles.
(Side note: I’m not saying you can’t be friends with a woman. But if you’re just friends with a woman who you have feelings for, you’re deluding yourself.)
Most guys won’t do this though. Most guys will instead double down, try harder and give the girl more attention.
This never works. So keep your dignity, keep your balls and don’t waste your time.
Instead you should cut her out of your life completely for at least a few weeks. If not forever.
At which point you can move onto pursuing other girls, and rather ironically, cutting a girl out of your life cold turkey can actually make her attracted to you. .This is what I call stage 0 in my 4 step reversal attraction method and that works like gangbusters for getting guys out of the friend-zone.
If your feelings for the girl haven’t subsided after a couple of weeks of cutting her out of your life, you can have a second crack at creating an attraction with her.
You should read over the Reversal Attraction Method in the Get Her In Bed program before you do though. It’s ridiculous how well that method works at creating sexual attraction in girls who before were seemingly uninterested.
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Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland