The attraction doctor

Long time readers of my emails will know that I often bang on about how important it is to give off a confident vibe, if you want to create attraction in a woman.

And I’ll continue to bang on about it because it’s a fundamental principle of creating an attraction.

The way I like to think of it is you’ve got to be like a Doctor when they’re prescribing a patient some pills. I get to what I mean by this in a second… But first, a quick example.

The other day I was shooting pool at a local bar I like to occasionally go to and there was a group of guys and girls hanging out, who all looked like they were in their early 20’s.

I overheard one of the guys in the group say the following to one of the girls he obviously had the hots for:

“You know, I was just kinda wondering… if you maybe wanted to hang out sometime. Just…uhh… you and me… If you’re not too busy doing something that is.”

The guy had zero confidence. He sounded like a limp handshake. And the girl was clearly repulsed by this and politely declined his offer.

Now compare this to an approach I’ve successfully used multiple times in the past to get a girls number. (Note: I don’t use this specific tactic anymore because there are more effective ways of getting a girls number, but this still works okay.)

I’ll be talking to a girl and I will suddenly tell her “Give me your phone.”

This usually gets a confused look, or “What? Why?” response, but if you just confidently and calmly repeat “Just give me your phone. You’ll see” the girl will usually go along with it.

At this point I’d enter my number into her phone and send myself a text so I had her number. At this point I’d then hand the girl her phone back and tell her “Now you’ve got my number and I’ve got yours. I’m going to get in touch with you later this week and maybe we can go for a drink some time.”

This tactic sounds quite extreme (and it is) but it’s led to quite a few dates for me. And the reason it works is because it exudes confidence.

It’s like if you went to the Doctor and he prescribed you some pills.

If the Doctor prescribing you the pills didn’t sound very confident and said – “Here you… you should probably take one… or maybe two of these every day, or um maybe just every two days might work better.” – You’re going to think the Doctor doesn’t have a clue what he’s talking about.

Whereas if the Doctor said “take 2 of these pills the first day and one pill a day every day after that” the Doctor is going to sound a lot more confident. Therefore you’re going to trust the Doctor and you’re going to follow his (or her) instructions.

You want your Doctor to be confident.

Same goes for women. Women want their men to be confident and charismatic.

They don’t want to get into a relationship with some guy who is unsure of himself.

But how can you become more confident?

I believe there is one fundamental change every man can make to boost his confidence and charisma and I talk about it in the first section of the Get Her In Bed program.

Not only will this fundamental change boost your confidence and charisma… it’s going to eradicate your neediness and force you to live a more fulfilling and happier life.

Here’s the link:

https://GetHerInBed.com/GetHerInBed

Until tomorrow,
Vince Sutherland

P.S. To find the fundamental change that I’m talking about enter the members’ area, click to the 5 Principles Of Attraction section and scroll down to the heading: How To Eradicate Your Neediness For Good & In Turn Become More Charismatic.