What To Do If Your Girl Cheats On You

The following question came in from a reader of the site recently:

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A girl I’ve been dating for a little over 8 months confessed to me that she cheated on me a few weeks ago when she was on vacation with some of her girlfriends. She told me the feeling of guilt was too much for her to take so she had to tell me. She also said she never actually had sex with him. She just sucked him off. I feel like sh*t and don’t know what I should do. What do you advise?

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It’s an awful situation to be in…

…but there is only ONE acceptable option you have when a woman admits to cheating on you, or if you catch her cheating on you…

You’ve got to break up with her.

If you catch her cheating, or she admits to cheating, you MUST break up with her.

I don’t care how much she means to you, or how long you’ve been dating.

There are no exceptions to this rule.

It might hurt to break up with her, but it’s going to save you from going through literal hell on eart in the long run.

If she cheats, she’s done. It’s as simple as that.

Ignore this rule at your own peril.

Reason being, if she cheats on you and you continue dating her, 3 things will likely happen.

1. She’ll lose a ton of respect for you.
2. You’ll lose a ton of respect for yourself.
3. You’ve basically let her know that it’s “okay” to cheat on you, so she WILL do it again.

It might be a few days later… it might be a few years later… but you can count on the fact that she will cheat on you again.

By continuing to date her, you’re letting her know that you’re so pathetically desperate to be her boyfriend, that you’ll let her stuff another mans sausage and cream down her throat, have her come home and kiss you with those same lips, and you’re so pathetic that you’ll forgive her.

I don’t mean to be crude, but I’m just trying to clear paint the picture of how much of a non-option continuing to date her really is.

So in summary…

If she cheats, it’s over!